15 Trip Ideas for your Next Girlfriend Getaway

Spend some quality time with your group of gals when you travel to one of Virginia's charming towns. From urban adventures to historic sites to sprawling wineries, your girls trip can be as unique as your squad. 

Here are our recommendations for 13 cities and towns to explore on a weekend getaway with your girlfriends, including where to stay, eat, and play during your trip.
 

Jump to: Fredericksburg | Harrisonburg | Northern Neck | Manassas | Abingdon | Richmond | Heart of Appalachia | Norfolk | Waynesboro | Virginia Beach | Bristol | Charlottesville | Alexandria | Staunton | Middleburg
 

FREDERICKSBURG

The historic city of Fredericksburg has plenty of charm packed into its walkable downtown, plus a variety of outdoor fun just outside of town. Ideal for history buffs and book clubs, Fredericksburg should also be a magnet for boutique shoppers and theater lovers. 

Where to Stay

The Richard Johnston Inn – 18th century inn in historic downtown Fredericksburg with seven guest rooms and two suites. A block away you'll find the 1890 Caroline House, a Victorian-inspired home with two rooms and a suite. 

Ironclad Inn – Describes itself as the first "B&B&B" — the extra "B" is for the bourbon tasting room and bottle shop, which hosts tastings, cocktails, and light snacks daily. The Colonial-era brick residence has nine rooms. 

The Publisher Fredericksburg – A Marriott hotel with luxury charms, located at the historic site of The Free Lance-Star newspaper. Larger property with a fitness center and on-site restaurant. 

Where to Eat

Foode – The home base for Executive Chef Joy Crump, James Beard semifinalist. Southern cooking and sustainability drive the menu.

Orofino – Fresh Italian spot in the heart of the Historic District. 

Fahrenheit 132 – Contemporary steakhouse with craft cocktails and daily happy hour. 

Osan – Japanese sushi and teriyaki restaurant. Korean entrees are also available. 

What to Do 

• Spend an afternoon window shopping in historic downtown Fredericksburg and find a treasure to take home. 
• Stroll through Riverfront Park and take in views of the Rappahannock River. 
• Explore historic sites like George Washington’s Ferry Farm, Chatham Manor, Hugh Mercer Apothecary Shop, and the Mary Washington House.
• Keep it historical, but add some outdoor exercise at  Fredericksburg Battlefield and Fredericksburg & Spotsylvania National Military Park.
• Enjoy dinner and a show at Riverside Center for the Performing Arts.

HARRISONBURG

This Shenandoah Valley city may be known as a college town (it's home to James Madison University) but "The Friendly City" has a walkable downtown and a bounty of opportunities for outdoor lovers. For a group that wants to get outside, bond over craft brews, and share a delicious meal, Harrisonburg is an underrated gem. 

Where to Stay

Massanutten Resort – A mountain escape packed with amenities on 6,000 acres. 

By the Side of the Road Inn & Cottages – Choose from a selection of cozy rooms and suites in the Federal-style main house, plus cottages and studios on the property. 

Joshua Wilton House – Historic inn that offers five rooms in walkable area of downtown Harrisonburg.

Where to Eat

Clementine – Upscale restaurant serving dinner, plus brunch on the weekends. If the weather's nice, be sure to sit on the patio. 

Mashita – Made-from-scratch, Korean-inspired dishes with creative flare.

The Little Grill – A Harrisonburg institution since 1940 with breakfast favorites. 

Cuban Burger – Fuel up at this Cuban burger and sandwich spot, focusing on classic dishes with modern twists.

What to Do

• Embark on a hike in the George Washington and Jefferson National Forests, like High Knob Fire Tower, or in Shenandoah National Park, like Hightop Mountain 
• Marvel at the gardens of the Edith J. Carrier Arboretum, free and open every day from dawn until dusk. 
• Find charming independent shops along the city's 40-block historic district. 
• Explore the fields of White Oak Lavender Farm before a tasting at Purple Wolf Vineyard.
• Get pampered at Cedar Stone Spa.
• Wind down at the Sage Bird Ciderworks taproom and sample locally made cider. 

NORTHERN NECK

Retreat to the easygoing shores of the Chesapeake Bay and experience beautiful scenery, unmatched seafood, and a relaxing atmosphere. Nestled between the Potomac and Rappahannock Rivers, the Northern Neck will allow your group to rest, recharge, and bond. 

Where to Stay

The Tides Inn – Waterfront property in Irvington with unique experiences, including guided oyster tours, boat excursions, art workshops, and seaplane charters. 

Harmony Tides Cottage – If traveling with a small group, seek out this intimate three-bedroom cottage, located in the sun-dappled woods of Irvington. 

Riverview Inn – Steps away from the waterfront in Colonial Beach, this iconic structure has midcentury flair and contemporary comforts. 

Where to Eat

The Dog and Oyster – Micro-vineyard in Irvington pairing local wine with fresh oysters, raw, roasted, and fried. 

Dockside Restaurant & Tiki Bar – Colonial Beach riverside property with shareables and an extensive drink menu.

Adrift – Upscale dining in White Stone serving seafood, burgers, and Italian dishes on select nights.

What to Do

• Venture onto the water during a river cruise or on a kayak tour.
• Get a new perspective on the Northern Neck with a Coastal Sky Taxi flight.
• Spend a day hiking at Caledon State Park or exploring the beach at Westmoreland State Park.
• Walk the charming boardwalk and stretch out on the sands of Colonial Beach.
• Take in the history at Stratford Hall and Menokin.
• Browse the booths at Kilmarnock Antique Gallery and find new-to-you treasures.

Keep planning your Bay retreat with our guide to 5 Northern Neck small towns you need to visit. 
 

MANASSAS & PRINCE WILLIAM COUNTY

Known for its Civil War history, a visit to Manassas could feel like a trip back to the 19th century. But with modern comforts, unique shopping, and standout dining, the Northern Virginia town makes for the perfect contemporary getaway for a low-key girls trip. Add in the attractions of the surrounding Prince William County and you'll have plenty to fill your itinerary. 

Where to Stay

Manassas Junction Bed & Breakfast – A small group can stay at this B&B in Manassas, walking distance to Old Town. 

The Inn at Evergreen – Historic boutique hotel nestled at the base of the Bull Run Mountains in Prince William County. 

Where to Eat

Battle Street Bistro – From-scratch kitchen in Old Town Manassas.

The Secret Garden Cafe – Find this gem in Occoquan in Prince William County and dine in a secluded garden. 

Katerina's Greek Cuisine – Locals love this intimate Greek spot. Get there early as there's limited seating. 

Siam Classic – Top-rated Thai restaurant with flavorful dishes and a full bar

What to Do

• Browse antique and artisan shops in Old Town Manassas.
• Sip local wines at nearby vineyards like The Winery at La Grange and Effingham Manor & Winery
• Walk the grounds of Manassas National Battlefield Park and visit the museum to learn more about the First and Second Battles of Manassas, key conflicts in the Civil War.
• Follow the Steins, Vines, and Moonshine Trail and cheers to a trip that made it out of the group chat. 

Keep planning your NOVA getaway with our complete guide to visiting Prince William County. 
 

ABINGDON

The Blue Ridge Highlands town of Abingdon is a gem for foodies, theater lovers, and outdoor enthusiasts — making it easy to plan a trip that works for everyone in your group. 

Where to Stay

The Martha Washington Inn & Spa – This historic hotel dates back to 1832, but now features elegant modern amenities such as a spa, fitness center, and award-winning dining. 

Creeper's End Lodging – Enjoy easy access to the Creeper Trail from these two cottages, which together have five rooms and suites. 

Where to Eat

The Tavern – Historic fine dining, founded in 1779. 

128 Pecan – Quirky, approachable spot with lunch and dinner specials. 

The Girl & The Raven – A must for breakfast with fresh coffee, pastries, and sandwiches

The Pakalachian – Pakistani-Appalachian fusion cuisine focused on sustainability and creative flavors.

Rain Restaurant & Bar – American cuisine, plus a late-night bar menu of shareables.

What to Do

• Browse the galleries at the William King Museum of Art. 
• See a show at the Barter Theatre, the State Theatre of Virginia. 
• Breeze through the trees on a bike journey down the Virginia Creeper Trail. 
• Stomp your feet and groove along at various nearby venues — The Crooked Road: Virginia's Heritage Music Trail rolls right through Abingdon. 

RICHMOND

Virginia's capital city should be on your girls trip bucket list. Get inspired at art museums and galleries with your craft group, or dive into the city's history with your book club. Bond at some of the best restaurants in the state and cheers to an adventurous day on the river at a rooftop bar. 

Where to Stay

Quirk Hotel – Bright and accommodating boutique hotel located in Richmond's Arts District. Don't miss the onsite gallery and quality gift shop. 

Linden Row Inn – 70-room boutique hotel in downtown Richmond. The Inn is actually seven restored row houses, adding to its historic charms. 

Graduate by Hilton Richmond – Collegiate-inspired hotel with rooftop bar, onsite restaurant, and pet-friendly rooms (in case you're taking a trip with your pals and your pup). 

The Boulevard Inn – Your small group can stay in the five rooms at The Boulevard Inn, nestled between the popular Fan and Museum District neighborhoods. 

Where to Eat

Blue Atlas – Get a reservation for a large group and enjoy an expertly crafted meal with a stunning sunset view. 

Little Nickel – Tropical diner cuisine ideal for drinks, bites, and IG photos. 

Restaurant Adarra – Upscale Basque-style restaurant ideal for small groups sharing plates. 

L'Opossum – Intimate modern French restaurant in an eclectic space. Call the restaurant to inquire about a reservation for groups larger than four. 

Penny’s Wine Shop – Small plates and natural, organic wines selected by friendly experts. 

For more Richmond restaurant picks, check out our full dining guide. 

What to Do

• Explore the (free!) galleries at the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts, check out visiting exhibitions, and spread out for a picnic in the sculpture garden. 
• Walk through Carytown and stop into boutique shops and flavorful restaurants. 
• Experience the Mighty James River at Belle Isle, Brown's Island, or Pony Pasture, or test your teamwork with a whitewater rafting trip. 
• Learn something new on an engaging neighborhood walking tour with The Valentine.
• See a show at an iconic venue like The National or on the banks of the James at Allianz Amphitheater.
• Stroll through Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden and admire the flora.

Keep planning your RVA adventure with our complete guide to visiting Richmond. 
 

HEART OF APPALACHIA

Reconnect with your girlfriends in the Appalachian small towns of Southwest Virginia. For outdoor lovers, nearby parks and hikes provide unbeatable views. Feel the heartbeat of the region when you visit iconic stops along The Crooked Road. 

Where to Stay

Western Front Hotel – St. Paul hotel ready to help fuel your adventure or guide your relaxation. 

The Inn at Wise – Colonial Revival-style hotel with historic touches, luxury finishes, and an onsite med spa. 

Where to Eat

Woodbooger Grill – Quirky, filling pub in Norton named in honor of a local legend. 

The Front Porch on Main – Tazewell spot located in a Victorian-style home with approachable breakfast menu. 

MountainRose Vineyards – Hidden gem winery with daily tastings in Wise County. 

What to Do

• Discover the story and sounds of the first family of country music at the Carter Family Fold. 
• Plunge through Breaks Interstate Park, known as the Grand Canyon of the South, on a zip line. 
• Get your heart racing from behind the wheel of an ATV on the Spearhead Trails.
• Take a chairlift ride through the mountains at Natural Tunnel State Park. 
• Learn the region's history with hands-on museums like Crab Orchard Museum and Pioneer Park. 

NORFOLK

World-renowned art, lively shopping and entertainment, and waterfront bliss combine in the Hampton Roads city of Norfolk. 

Where to Stay

Hilton Norfolk The Main – 23-story luxury hotel with a rooftop beer garden in the heart of downtown. 

The Glass Light Hotel & Gallery – Artsy and eclectic luxury hotel with specialty creations from Perry Glass Art Collection. 

Four Eleven York – Cozy inn suited for small groups in the historic Freemason District. 

Where to Eat

Freemason Abbey Restaurant – Upscale American restaurant located in a restored 19th century church.

Norfolk Seafood Co. – Cajun-Creole flavors paired with the freshest local seafood.

Syd's Fish Pig Cafe – Quirky spot for quality fish, pig, and other creative dishes. 

The Market in Waterside District – Everyone can find something to nosh on at this 30,000-square-foot food hall. 

What to Do

• Witness 5,000 years of global art history at the Chrysler Museum of Art. 
• Explore over 60 themed gardens at Virginia's largest botanical garden. 
• Walk the streets of the NEON District to find public art, unique dining, and boutique shops. 
• Stroll or bike the 10.5-mile Elizabeth River Trail — you'll pass several Norfolk attractions that you can stop into during your walk. 
• Climb aboard the Battleship Wisconsin and discover maritime history at Nauticus.

Keep adding to your Mermaid City bucket list with our complete guide to visiting Norfolk. 
 

WAYNESBORO

Unwind, pamper yourself, and take in the local scenery in Waynesboro. The Shenandoah Valley town also provides easy access to Skyline Drive, the Blue Ridge Parkway, and the Appalachian Trail, a major plus for outdoorsy groups. 

Where to Stay

Iris Inn – Intimate mountain resort with guest rooms, cottages, and cabins. 

Grey Pine Lodge – Boutique motel with easy access to the natural splendor of the Shenandoah Valley.

Where to Eat

Stable Craft Brewing – Expansive venue with Southern fare in a repurposed barn on a working horse farm.

The Fishin’ Pig – Barbecue and Southern spot with large outdoor dining area. 

The River Burger Bar – Burger joint with vegan and vegetarian options in downtown Waynesboro. 

What to Do

• Sip your way through Shenandoah on the Shenandoah Beerwerks Trail or Shenandoah Valley Wine Trail. 
• Wander through the Claudius Crozet Blue Ridge Tunnel, once the longest railroad tunnel in the world. 
• Venture underground to take in the naturally-carved beauty of the Grand Caverns. 
• Walk through downtown Waynesboro and admire the street art scene. 
• Amble along the river on the South River Greenway. 
• Spend a day in nearby Shenandoah National Park, accessible via Skyline Drive. 

VIRGINIA BEACH

Expect more than just oceanfront fun when you visit Virginia Beach — although there's plenty of sand and surf to be enjoyed. From restaurants and shops to public art and parks, this coastal city is filled with adventure.

Bonus: Bring the girls for an off-season trip and you'll have the same fun on a smaller budget.  

Where to Stay

Moxy Virginia Beach Oceanfront – Funky, chic hotel with an outdoor pool, restaurant, and fitness center. 

The Cavalier Resort – The choice for VB luxury. Choose from three properties included in the resort, including the timeless and swanky Historic Cavalier Hotel and Beach Club. 

Inn at Old Beach – Boutique stay with several rooms and suites, plus complimentary bakery treats on the weekend. 

Where to Eat

The Bee & The Biscuit – Biscuits, benedicts, and other breakfast goodies at a cottage in Pungo. 

Aloha Snacks – Hawaiian-style snacks and Poke bowls. 

Chick’s Oyster Bar – Local favorite with oysters, seafood, sandwiches, and comfort food. 

Waterman’s Surfside Grille – Well-known seafood spot renowned for the famous Orange Crush cocktail. 

Still hungry? Our full Virginia Beach dining guide has more recommendations. 

What to Do

• Spend a day wandering the ViBE Creative District, a cultural hub of vintage shops, boutique stores, and public art. 
• Rent bikes and head down the Virginia Beach Boardwalk. Look out for the famous King Neptune Statue, a 34-foot tall boardwalk mainstay. 
• Have some classic beach town fun at The Shack on 8th, which has everything from cornhole and live music to cocktail classics at the attached Waterman Sprits. 
• Take a hike along the 19 miles of trails at First Landing State Park.
• Broaden your artistic horizons at the ever-changing Virginia Museum of Contemporary Art. 
• Ride the waves at Atlantic Park Surf — perfect for seasoned pros or board beginners. 

That's just the start — keep planning your coastal trip with our complete guide to visiting Virginia Beach. 
 

BRISTOL

If you and your friends are always singing, Bristol is the place to be. Known as the Birthplace of Country Music, the city straddles the Virginia-Tennessee line. Wherever you are in Bristol, you won't be far from live music.  

Where to Stay

The Bristol Hotel – 65-room boutique hotel, located in a Classical Revival building that dates back to 1925. Bonus: Your stay gets you free admission to the Birthplace of Country Music Museum. 

The Sessions Hotel – 20th century charm spread out across numerous historic building facades on State Street. 

Nicewonder Farm & Vineyards – Pamper yourselves at this expansive luxury resort with boutique suites, rooms, and yurts. Don't miss out on exploring the vineyard and booking a treatment at the spa. 

Where to Eat

Burger Bar – Can anyone in your group master the Burger Bar Challenge? Try your hand at this Bristol institution. 

Hickory – Fine dining at Nicewonder Farm & Vineyards featuring Appalachian-inspired cuisine. 

Vivian’s Table – Approachable Appalachian chophouse. 

Red Pepper Indian Restaurant – Indian restaurant with refined and rich flavors. 

What to Do

• Learn about the legendary 1927 recordings that brought country music to the mainstream at the Birthplace of Country Music Museum.
• Get some outdoor adventure in on the 12.5-mile Mendota Trail, great for hiking or biking. 
• Cheers to a day of exploring at Lumac Rooftop Bar. 
• Discover new ciders to love and remarkable views at Squabble State Hard Cider & Spirits. 
• Walk down State Street, home to a bounty of local shops. Don't forget to stop for a group photo under the Bristol Sign! 

Your SWVA adventure awaits — keep planning with our complete guide to visiting Bristol. 
 

CHARLOTTESVILLE

If you want to escape to the mountains, but still feel the benefits of small city living, take your girls trip to Charlottesville. The historic town is brimming with art, food, drink, and nature, and is also an easy gateway to the rustic adventures of Shenandoah National Park and the Blue Ridge Mountains. 

Where to Stay

The Doyle Hotel – Boutique hotel with art and furniture by regional artists, plus a rooftop bar. 

Oakhurst Inn – Tranquil and historic inn with 36 rooms, located steps from the Grounds of the University of Virginia. 

Kimpton The Forum Hotel – Contemporary hotel with a backdoor arboretum and botanical gardens to explore. 

The Draftsman – Upscale hotel with 150 rooms, conveniently located between UVA and the Downtown Mall. 

Where to Eat

MarieBette Café and Bakery – Snag a pastry or stay for brunch in the Rose Hill neighborhood. 

Farm Bell Kitchen – Cute daily brunch spot inside the historic Dinsmore Inn. 

Mas Tapas – Sharing is caring at this Spanish tapas spot in Belmont. 

C&O Restaurant  – Upscale country French fare since 1976. 

Smyrna – Mediterranean eats with a seasonal menu. 

The Alley Light – Light bites, grazing boards, and craft cocktails at a French-style lounge. 

Getting hungry? Find more places to eat in Charlottesville.

What to Do

• Shop along the iconic Downtown Mall, a pedestrian strip home to over 120 shops and dozens of restaurants. 
• Discover America's foundational history at Thomas Jefferson's Monticello and James Monroe’s Highland. 
• Pick your own peaches or apples at Carter Mountain Orchard, or just enjoy the view from the top of the mountain with a Bold Rock Cider in hand. 
• Chart your own course on the Monticello Wine Trail, a world-renowned group of wineries and vineyards. Here are our picks for standout wineries! 
• Walk the galleries at the Fralin Museum of Art and the Kluge-Ruhe Aboriginal Art Collection.

Ready to see Cville? Get more travel tips with our complete guide to visiting Charlottesville. 
 

ALEXANDRIA

You and your pals will love exploring Alexandria, a historic town just across the Potomac from our nation's capital. Shop, dine, and explore art along the waterfront and discover hidden gems when you visit this Northern Virginia city.   

Where to Stay

Hotel Heron – Old Town hotel with rooftop bar, historic accents, and contemporary comforts. 

The Alexandrian – This classic Old Town hotel has Federalist-era architecture and a homey courtyard perfect for morning coffee with your girls. 

Archer Hotel – Boutique Old Town hotel with a secluded brick courtyard and pristine rooms, plus 16 suites. 

Where to Eat

Chewish Deli – Snag to-go bagels and set up a nearby picnic. 

Ada’s on the River – Fresh seafood, grilled salads, and more on the waterfront. 

Barca Pier & Wine Bar  – Indulge in Mediterranean flavors at this industrial-chic river eatery. 

Los Tios Grill – You can't beat the chips, margs, and Tex-Mex eats at this Alexandria institution. 

Virtue Feed & Grain – Two-story restaurant and bar in a converted 19th century feed and grain warehouse. 

Use our Alexandria and Arlington dining guide to keep planning. 

What to Do

• Stop into boutique shops and antique stores along King Street in the iconic Old Town neighborhood.
• While in Old Town, stop into the Torpedo Factory Art Center to witness working artist studios and get inspired by local art. 
• Go for a refreshing bike ride down the Mount Vernon Trail, which runs from Theodore Roosevelt Island in Arlington to Mount Vernon. 
• See two iconic homes when you visit Woodlawn & Pope-Leighey House — the former has multiple past lives in American history, the latter was designed by Frank Lloyd Wright. 
• Relax at Balian Springs, an immersive spa and wellness retreat. 
• Take a short drive to George Washington’s Mount Vernon and take a tour. 

Check out our complete guide to visiting Alexandria to start adding to your travel to-do's. 
 

STAUNTON

An underrated gem nestled in the heart of the Shenandoah Valley, Staunton has a small town vibe that's perfect for a girls trip. With charming architecture and a compact, walkable downtown, Staunton would be an ideal trip for book clubs, arts groups, and history lovers. 

Where to Stay

Blackburn Inn – An architectural standout inside and out, the Blackburn looks out over the rolling hills of the region. 

Hotel 24 South – Relaxing and historic hotel built in 1924. Steps from the offerings of downtown Staunton with spacious rooms and an indoor pool. 

Where to Eat

Maude & The Bear – James Beard nominee that offers an immersive fine dining experience. A must for visiting foodies! 

The Shack – Staunton institution with pasta, pizza, and fresh flavors.

Queen City Bistro – Italian and Southern favorites with space for large groups. 

Remedy Burger – Downtown spot for artisan burgers and truffle fries. 

Zynodoa – Stylish, upscale eatery with farm-to-table emphasis. 

What to Do

• Go window shopping in Historic Downtown Staunton. Pop into local stores and follow your nose to a delicious meal. 
• Catch a show at Blackfriars Playhouse, home to the American Shakespeare Center. 
• Learn more about a complicated figure in American history on a tour of the Woodrow Wilson Presidential Library and Museum.
• Uncover the past and blaze new trails at the Frontier Culture Museum.

MIDDLEBURG

A quintessential small town that makes for a convenient escape from the hubbub of Northern Virginia cities, Middleburg is known as America's horse and hunt country capital. Your friend group will love the opportunity to unplug and unwind as you amble along brick-lined streets, sip local wine, and stroll through art galleries. 

Where to Stay

The Ashby Inn & Restaurant – Cozy B&B with ten rooms in the rural hamlet of Paris, Virginia. 

Salamander Middleburg – Sumptuous resort with an array of amenities including a spa, equestrian center, zip line course, and hiking trails. 

The Red Fox Inn & Tavern – 22 rooms, suites, and cottages spread out across restored historic buildings. 

Where to Eat

King Street Oyster Bar – Fresh oysters and American-style fare in a smart casual setting. 

The Conservatory at Goodstone Inn – Indulge in a seasonal tasting menu prepared by Executive Chef Paul Verica. 

Tremolo Bar – Modern wine bar with internationally inspired small plates. 

What to Do

• Spend an afternoon antiquing in the picturesque Middleburg Historic District. 
• Discover world-class wine at nearby wineries — you're in the heart of Virginia Wine Country. 
• Try a craft bourbon cocktail at Nomad and relax with some jazzy tunes. 
• Explore Aldie Mill Historic Park and experience 19th century milling technology through a live grinding demonstration. 

Whether you're heading to the mountains or the beach, escaping to a small town or exploring a new city, Virginia has all that you love, all in one place. Keep planning your Virginia girls trip.